NOW, the bladder! prayers and support. I don't know why I am not getting notification on responses. Neck pain, Overwhelming feeling doom, I panic jump in my car drove near the hospital which is 10minutrs drive from my house. So it must be this menopause making some of us lose control on ourselves. Does propranolol help you? Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. My husband and I work very closely in our jobs ,and so we can navigate times when I need to flop, however , sometimes we are called to try and carry on because of who we are in our jobs. I am sorry you are feeling this way too. I started having stabbing (like almost electric shock pains) just above my pelvis bone. i have not had a period in three months and since december ive had a feeling of inflamation and pain on my right flank. Hot flashes were never too bad, but heart pounding loud and hard (and fast) right before I'd get one. You are absolutely right about googling. Hi Sherricl & Ukkiwibird (and all you lovely ladies out there)!!! Very scared. Perhaps her ideas were sought as well as the other persons and together they made a plan. Im not happy for anyones suffering but happy to have met you awesome ladies who have validated exactly what I experience. Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. While it can be a bit challenging at first, you may find that this approach becomes more natural over time. Hope to hear back from you to see if you ever dealt with the reflux and difficulty burping. Omg I thought I was dying, tight chest. God be with us all. When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. I didnt realize men caused this. I get reflux and then I take a tums and then it stops the reflux but causes me to have a pulling nagging pain between breast and shoulder blades. I've had anxiety since little, so I'm ALREADY on meds for it, benzos. I think when hormones are off, the pH gets messed up and causes all sorts of strange things in the bladder/vagina. I dont think its IC but i get this pressure but very little urine. Feeling statements can be helpful in both everyday communication as well as in therapeutic settings. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. Try our Symptom Checker Got any other symptoms? How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? I have to force myself to move then I do feel better after awhile. Yes, I take all the supplements I need, I drink plenty of water and I'm now on the Fodmap diet for Sibo. Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. I have always feared death but in the past year it's been terrible. When i had bloodwork again in August, 2019 i found out it was elevated. Then the nausea which would come in waves. i just got home from the er where all my tests were normal. I am 62 and endocrinologist suggested I go down on my hormone and now in bed so ill. Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. i can totally picture myself doing this! By Erin Johnston, LCSW Instead, speakers should keep the focus on their own emotions, how the issue is affecting them, and what solutions might help. I tried Cymbalta but again i googled as was terrified at some of the reviews. And here's the worst part. Every day I wake up saying I am going to be strong but then another symptom appears! Synonyms for I Feel (other words and phrases for I Feel). I read a post you wrote about shoulder blade,throat and ear pain. hi just ready all glory to god , bit I'm in a constant battle everyday I have some many things that's physical wrong with me , for aches pains to cramps tingling numbing surges of pain in bust hip aches groin pains back aches, stiff neck back of head shoulders weird headaches , light-headedness sometimes like I'm just floating ,it's a daily constant battle, I went through some really dark times in my mind and tried hrt but think that caused more light-headedness palpitations dropping in BP heart rate , had ecg done that's OK so just stopped taking it , but still constant feel ill daily , and now I have been called back for further testing following a mammogram, so I am all over the show , then I have to get down and seek God, because that's all I can do . Strangely sad, too. i had the same fear about dying and losing my parents and it eventually got better and went away. I hear you. I've so been there. Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use This page is used to house a list of albums in Extreme Music's Scoreganics (SCS) series. they reassured me they are fine and this too shall pass. As crappy as it is, it sure is comforting knowing we are not alone in this! Our softgels are made using nanoemulsion technology that increases CBD's bioavailability, making it easier for the body to . Like you i do gets bouts of no energy but then some days I almost feel normal then bam you wake up and there is a new issue to deal with. No copyright infringement intended. I just feel OFF (not really dizzy) just head foggy! Egton Medical Information Systems Limited. Once the feeling is stated, it should be connected to an issue or event. Have your symptoms gotten any better? I am supposed to see a rheumatologist on Feb 14. ya the sore throat really started freaking me out , I've read where everyone said do avoid sweets , dairy , and caffeine, so I have been and have started eating spinach and vegetables and trying to get to a healthier weight , and wasn't feeling to bad today so I thought I'd try a diet coke to see if it actually did effect my symptoms and sure enough it did not even a hr after drinking it my throat has started hurting , feel like I have a vice script on my head moreless pressure , and right lower rib started hurting again , so needless to say there will be no more caffeine in my future , I've went as far as going to cvs and buying a rapid std test because my doctors and everyone says that I'm fine even though I was checked 3 yrs ago and haven't bee. These messages can have a number of benefits during communication: Feeling statements can be a way to express assertiveness without causing listeners to feel blamed, accused, defensive, or guilty. Glad to hear back from you. Praying this is just another lovely menopause symptom and not cancer. Each softgel contains broad spectrum hemp extract that provides a wide range of hemp's cannabinoids, terpenes, flavonoids, and other beneficial compounds. After 3 months of suffering with the urinary symptoms, I went to my gyn and I kid you not, he told me to have a colonoscopy to rule out any bowel issues that could be mimicking bladder symptoms. It can be brought on by stress..do anyone in your family have diverticulitis or IBS? Treatment such as creams and pessaries are often very effective in helping the symptoms. We are in this together ladies! My heart goes out to everyone dealing with this. Yes i pretend all is well, i dont speak about the extent of my situation as most people think you are over reacting, because when they look at you physically you are ok, but its inside thats suffering. i have similar issues i have sibo and low iron i found out by seeing an integrative doctor she ordered antibiotics for the sibo and said after taking it i will be a diffrent person but when i read the side effect of the med im scared to take it the reaction with covid vaccine my body is so senstive to meds . For example, the speaker in the previous example might say, "I feel sad that I have to do this alone. I read your post and I have the same EXACT symptoms.the nausea is awful. Thanks. I have had it for YEARS (and I mean YEARS) so if THAT was anything, I would be dead by now! I had this done back in November. Every day I feel like either the end is near or that I will be committedit's just insane. We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). This might involve a person saying something like, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends. Nat Commun. then it moves to the front and i feel pressure and aching. its putting me into depression, Hi Becky, I'm exactly the same don't feel right and when I wake up you don't feel you either people say it will get better and that's my only hope..I'm glad you are feeling better it's so hard. I dont want to use anti depressants either. Honestly it's terrible. Take Care. Stretching and walking seems to help. I believe in GOD, so I put all my faith in him. Fear to be alone and hard to be with my husband too. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. Doctors didnt have a clue so i googled and next thing i had all these weird, crazy diseases.. It would last a few days each month and I had to make myself eat. I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. It can drive you to the edge especially if you are googling. I feel like i always have some kind of physical problem and it's giving me major health anxiety. Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. When people talk about feelings, they often have a tendency to assign blame first while downplaying the feeling. Sorry for the rant , hi, are your periods still regular? Two different meds, for this, and neither one helped. My head hurts all the way down through my neck! It just feels like its never going to end! I am so relieved to have found your post. Waking up after 3 hrs of sleep in complete panic. i too get muscle tremors around my body, hot flashes and twitches or zapping feeling or skin crawling and the bloating and vaginal flatulence at times. ty. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. the rib or flank pain is scary for me. I also get rib pain on my left side only, comes and goes. Journal of Language and Social Psychology. Does this sound familiar. I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. I saw your post about rib and left side pain. 348 users are following. Feels like a strange sort of pressure. All of a sudden I had almost every one of the perimenapause symptoms. Don't want to give up on God as that is all I have but getting tired of this daily suffering. I did many tests what i know is i have Gerd . I absolutely agree with everything that you said. While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. I last bled in December and FSH test came out at 76. Is this a normal thing with this (post-menopause)? And now that anxiety is UP UP UP, my pills are struggling to work. Does not burn when I go and my at home test for UTI was negative. praying for us all, Hi there! 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. The use of "you language" opposed to "I language" makes it more likely that this conversation disintegrated into a full-blown argument, leaving no one feeling particularly good. I realize this was posted months ago but I'm hoping there are still others out there that can relate i feel as if this perimenooause is breaking me i literally feel as if I'm dying from nausea the moment i wake up to constant anxiety and panic attacks, jelly legs etc its horrible and so overwhelming I don't recognize myself I used to be such a practical thinking person. I own a property management company so on the computer probably 14 hours a day and I am pretty sure it's due to my posture. Dry mouth and burning tongue make it really hard to eat so I am losing weight. yesss. I think together and reading each other's posts, it makes us hopeful and not so alone! I occasionally get tachy but not as often as I used to. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified I feel hungry but nauseated at the same time. I have never been a "moaner". It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. My main concern right now is this bladder pressure. Learning how to use "I feel" statements can be an effective way to improve how you communicate with others, particularly if you are dealing with difficult conversations or conflict. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. My doctors think i blow everything out of proportion. Thank you In advance . The doctors didnt have an answer as to why so thats what got me googling which led to my health anxiety. Steven Gans, MD is board-certified in psychiatry and is an active supervisor, teacher, and mentor at Massachusetts General Hospital. The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes. Still I feel scared being on my own during those panic attacks and anxiety. Every ache, pain I swear to God I am Googling convinces I have cancer or something and dying! But since this anxiety I am feeling very lonely and scared. Registered number: 10004395 Registered office: Fulford Grange, Micklefield Lane, Rawdon, Leeds, LS19 6BA. the worst feeling ever. Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? Instead of focusing on the actions or behaviors of the listener, feelings statements focus on how those actions make the speaker feel. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care.". I have recently started getting discomfort in my right flank/around the base of my ribs. The ultrasound nurse was horrible and wouldn't tell me what it means! When i get to three weeks of nightly Premarin, ill cut back to twice a week maitenance. Its Feb 5 now and on April 15 it will be my one full year without a period. Menopause sucks. My prayers are with all of us. Together they focus on the present activity and their feelings instead of blaming one another. These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. I speak to my kids about the situation but not to the full extent of what I'm going thru, so they don't really understand all these weird symptoms I'm getting. when i do deep breathing to try and relieve the anxiety it causes I feel a heaviness in my chest. My sed rate was also high over 120. I hope that reassures you a bit. hope we all do . Just want a sprinkle of myself back so I can enjoy life (which is hard to do with this COVID political mess) again ya know? I am afraid to ask. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. i also get alot of left rib pain - and over the last couple of years it's radiated to my back as well. my doctor told me to make a will too and that this would help. The anxiety (about health and dying) is ALL the time. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. I also have my digestive woes like you so you are definitely not alone. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. I don't understand how hormones can do this to a person. I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. It happened twice. I hope things get better for all of us. All the above symptoms I can relate to. It's consuming my life as it's all I think about. im on HRT patch and anti depressant but i dont think this one is working so i may need to switch. Wow, that is expensive! I don't have a cold or asthma. Mornings with my coffee are terrible (piddling every 15 minutes). i have been post menopause since 2015. Mahmoodi A, Bahrami B, Mehring C. Reciprocity of social influence. i feel like i am slowly dying and even tho all my tests come back normal ( and i havr had a lot ) that they are missing something thats gonna kill me. I've been to the doctors office twice regarding this. I'd also love to hear from anybody else going through the same. After reading through everybody's stories, hormone fluctuation seems to fit. I dont hardly have it anymore. I have another appointment in March with another doctor in the same practice and will ask her about my lining and if everything is ok now. How are you doing? Patient does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. i also gained a bunch of new food allergies and intolerances because it caused my immunity to go down. Thanks for that Sherricl I also had one polyp removed there and then just waiting for another one to be removed and hoping all is well with test results . I have my faith and i know i would be in so much worse shape without Him in my life and have done plenty of praying. Did your nausea come in waves. YES, I am postmenopausal too, been a year and a half since my last period. However, everybody can learn to use these and will benefit from non-accusatory communication. But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. But it feels like we lose all control. This is the worst fear that I could imagine and my PTSD was pretty bad but I don't compare it because at least I understood what caused it. you name it,! I had Covid in late December and some days I can't decide if my shortness of breath is the usual peri symptom of air hunger or from my Covid infection. Let's face it, when you're feeling like a loser you don't feel anything else. hello, wow you seem to have a lot of the same problems I have I think theyre digestive anyway theyre in my stomach and in my back and on my sides and they move around a lot but it really hurts mainly on my right side the most and Im really scared theres something wrong!!! my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu. Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. Without focussing on God's promises, I find it hard to see light at the end of this menopausal tunnel. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! I'm working with two therapists and a behavioral specialist to help me out of this. Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. Muscle twitches in calves and feet. Panicking with every single new symptom and the pandemic is not helping. I was so worried and Google is the worst! I did an at home UTI test and it was negative so have any of you ladies had this. I ache all over as well and have had so many stomach issues. Read our. Thank you for your suggestions , I got the antibiotics but i did some research some say the SIBO came back others with so many side effects so i was scared not knowing what would be the outcome now its expired , so i had to request for a refill with the holistic doctor since i didnt go back to see her for a year she recommends to see me which will be 100% out of pocket pay-for visit i almost spent $1,500-2,000 for follow up visits and private lab works . Maybe you could that, give the natural route a go and if you are not satisfied with the results you could then weigh up taking antibiotics. But be reassured you really are ok. Hormones effect every part of our body and it's normal. I feel terrible live a very healthy lifestyle and have been completely taken back by this every single day for three months. I have always had them but with menopause and everything drying out, they are more common! 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